5 Questions You Should Ask On A First Date
A first date is important to set the tone in a relationship. It is important that going forward both parties in a relationship are on the same page and share the same ideas.
There are a few important questions to ask on the first date.
1. Are you in a relationship?
You might think this is not a necessary question, but it is important to make sure that both parties are on the same page. Ask point blank to be sure. A person might just be on a break from their partner or in a situationship. It is best to know what you’re getting into.
2. What are your beliefs?
I know it’s the first date, but if both of you don’t agree on core subjects, of tolerance, spiritual beliefs, ideologies, there might be no point pursuing the relationship further.
3. Are you dating serially or are you dating for a relationship?
This is important to make sure there are no misconceptions. If someone is dating serially, that’s okay. As long as that’s what you want. Nothing should be assumed. If you’re looking for something more permanent and the other person is only trying to have fun, it’s best to know on time. And
4. What do you do for fun?
As a couple you should have shared activities. The other person might have surprising and engaging interests that you can both share. Asking what they do for fun is a good way to find out more about the other person.
5. What are your life plans and goals?
It’s never too early to know what someone’s plans for their life is. If they’re planning to travel, or further their studies, it’s important to know from the get go, to avoid being blindsided. As a couple, your goals should align, future plans should be known and discussed.
These are only a few questions to ask a prospective partner on a first date. Are there others you think should be added?
